Every now and then I run a little mini-AMA online from Bluesky, and I figured I’d start posting some good questions from those here! In the future, I’m going to move the AMA form fully over to this site, but for now you can ask me whatever you’d like over on my Revospring site or just directly on Bluesky if you don’t care about being anonymous.
🟥 PLEASE NOTE: Like most things on this site, questions and answers here are going to be NSFW!! They may deal with hard kinks or other “unsavory” things.
Anyway, without further ado, let’s get into it!
Since you mentioned buying a canoe oar from a hardware store, what are some other items from hardware stores or other unexpected places you can use for kink play?
Oh, there are tons of “pervertibles” that you can get! Riding crops at equestrian and farm supply stores like Tractor Supply are some of the best you can buy for kink, and your everyday hardware store is great for chains, locks, even some kinds of rope! Body pads are nice from sports places, but I prefer just getting floor mats for primal and pummelling play, it’s a lot safer and less restricting!
What kind of subs do you like? Do you have any sort of requirements? Like, do you like domestic service subs that cook and clean for you and get rewarded for good service? Or bratty subs you can punish? What would your ideal sub be like?
My speciality as a Domme is definitely obedience training and domestic service, 100%. When it comes to bratty s-types, I adore them and absolutely can work with that! But yeah I typically don’t do “funishment”. To Me, there is punishment and there is correction. And my punitive methods are very old-school.
What about being a Caregiver do you love?
Ooooh I love this question!!! Honestly, for me? It’s not that deep. It’s not about some need to compensate for past traumas or anything big like that, though ofc if someone DOES use it for that reason it’s perfectly healthy! For me, it’s just… I want to give people a motherly energy because that’s an energy that I feel confident in giving. I want to make people feel good, feel loved, feel safe but controlled in a place that’s all their own. I want to latch on to what makes it good about them and feed that, because I like to see people smile an unburdened smile, and this is absolutely a way that I can do it. It feeds me, too, so much. Seeing and hearing my little’s reactions and feeling them sink into comfort is a real closeness. That’s really all there is to it by itself.
